The
Secret Code Behind One's Destiny Secret
of Life and Answer to your Future
Weaknesses
or Strengths?
Feeling
unhappy over yourself? Hating yourself for who you are?
Why
must you be feeling so? To just be very straight with you, this
is the act of a fool.
Now,
even if the whole world is going to look down on you, you should
never look down on yourself. The more they are going to look down
on you, the more you should prove yourself to them, isn't it? And
I am sure your family and many other loved ones would never ever
look down on you. So the more you shouldn't let them down, isn't
it?
Understand
this. Strength or a weakness of yours, which is going to be which,
is still too early to be deciding now. For all you may know, your
weaknesses may just become your strength and your strength, your
weaknesses to become. In life, there is not definite power, not
definite rights or wrongs. What that matters is how you are going
to put to use what you have within yourself.
You
see. One who excel in his or hers studies doesn't necessarily mean
he or she is just going to do well in life. In fact, they are indeed
many top students who fail badly in life when they enter the working
society.
Yes.
They have the strength, that High IQ to absorb all those profound
theories taught in school, getting straight As for all their exams.
They are very good at putting theories of others into their head.
And because they scored As for them, they believe and insisted that
they are the correct way to doing things. They failed to understand
that what is success for others may not just be success for everyone.
Stubborn in a way, you can say.
And
because of their excellent academic result, they got straight into
high position in big companies. The higher they just climbed. And
when they eventually failed, they fall so badly that they couldn't
pick themselves up; failing just further to perform to expectations
of their job. Some were given another chance but some, sadly to
say, got laid off. This is how practical and realistic this world
can be.
What
may seem a strength to them at first has turned out to one big weakness.
Remember.
The correct idea of learning is to understand and put to practical
use of the knowledge to life and through experiences, constantly
customizing them to suits you. In simple, to be flexible.
Yes,
you may have failed for now. But that doesn't mean you are going
to fail forever. And let's just be frank, this is definitely not
the first time you encounter failure in life? And you are still
surviving, isn't it? Meaning to say, you have that subconscious
will and determination within you not wanting to just give up. In
a way, you have been very strong.
Think
about it. Stubbornness can be either a strength or weakness. To
stubborn to learn to give in and accept changes in life, that is
a weakness. Being persistent in pursuing your goals and never giving
up easily, that is strength.
What
your character make out of you depends on how you actually put them
to use.
The
laziest person can become the best salesperson, excelling in an
area where tedious hands-on work is at minimum. A person who can
never wake up in time for the normal 9 to 5 job can choose to work
as a freelancer, performing better in the hours which suits him.
A bankruptcy can become the best motivator, sharing his or her precious
experience with the young's. A little child who never fail to explain
his way through for his mischievous and wrongdoing may just become
a good lawyer when he grow up.
And
there is definitely more.
Stop
hating yourself. There is certainly that very something special
inside of you waiting to be discovered by you, something that could
bring about that difference to your life...